MegaRabbitoh
Grand Master
Increased irritability is a common symptom of depression, no matter what age you are but you can get an extra loading of it after around 60.does a sense of humour also die after 60?shit i hope not!
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Increased irritability is a common symptom of depression, no matter what age you are but you can get an extra loading of it after around 60.does a sense of humour also die after 60?shit i hope not!
My best mate down in Queanbeyan did some volunteer work during the last Fed election and will get involved again after this weekend's State election. Said he enjoyed it and keeps him focussed now that he's retired. He also does volunteer work down at the wildlife sanctuary and has a large, sprawling garden on his brother's property where he lives that he is constantly working on. Got to find what makes you content at this stage of life.I think people think a lot more about retirement these days. There used to be an old super scheme called SSS. When you retired you had a pension for life. The Govt got rid of it because people were living for too long. In the olden days men , especially, used to retire at 60 and be dead in 5 years. Me personally, I love Souths and history and so I work on the local historical society at Gerringong and do a few bit of history for Bunnies TV. Keeps me occupied. Just finished a week working on the elections. Good bit of pocket money.
I think you just need to have a project that is a passion. Some people on the Southern Highlands have old cars.
I can relate to that.Increased irritability is a common symptom of depression, no matter what age you are but you can get an extra loading of it after around 60.
There's trait and then there's state. Our traits are rusted on and as we age, they can slowly change but it is your natural baseline. Then you can be in a state which is far more transitory - a bit like the distinction between the climate and the weather.I can relate to that.
I said to my wife recently when you are born you start with a full tank of patience, and now my tank is just about empty. I have close to zero patience these days, things that didn’t used to bother me are now irritants. This all magnified once I’d retired. I’m aware of it so I have to check myself from time to time.
mmmmmmmmm.There's trait and then there's state. Our traits are rusted on and as we age, they can slowly change but it is your natural baseline. Then you can be in a state which is far more transitory - a bit like the distinction between the climate and the weather.
So, how grumpy are you naturally (for this or any stage of life) and then how much more grumpy does depression (among other things) make you? You at least want to get back to your baseline or average amount of grumpiness which would be one of several signs your depression is easing. It fluctuates like the waves in the ocean as it is but if you can make it to dry land, so to speak, then you're back to your usual grumpiness and not the kind with extra mustard.
Hope that makes sense.
I like my metaphors (you may have noticed.).
You can be alone and not lonely and you could be around others and yet still lonely.I guess I’m lucky as I’m a very self contained person. Alone but not lonely.
Sorry Braneganski
Old age defense.
I deleted my posts.
Cheers Old Man.
I thought it was clear from his deleted posts that the answer was noSo where were you living when you first started following Souths?
Warm regards brother.
Firstly, you haven’t overstepped the mark.I turn 66 this year and have come to recognise in myself a couple of personality traits that i don't particularly like. I have lost a lot of patience and am very quick to get onto a behavioural slippery slide of jumping straight into becoming angry and defensive as well as always needing to be right. I am trying a couple of new strategies. Firstly I am wearing a red and green Rabbitohs 1908 rubber wrist band to help me to remember to take a few deep diaphragm breaths rather then head automatically onto the anger/ impatience slippery slide. Its sort of a way to help me not get caught up in the all too easy slipstream of destructive responses. Its still a work in progress. Secondly, and I know this is something that won't suit everyone, i am trying some anti depression/ anxiety medication to help get back to a better plateau to develop improved behaviours which will in turn hopefully enable me to feel better about myself and improve my relationship with others. Again a work in progress.
Look, i hope i haven't overstepped the mark with too much personal stuff in this post...its just that i have found talking about stuff and sharing ideas quite cathartic at times. Anyway, best wishes to all my fellow old farts. Go the Bunnies!